Tornado in My Bath

There was a tornado in my bath today.

It flipped the room upside down

and shook it until the toilet was gone

and then the sink, the towels, the soap

falling into the sky one by one

my little cooing doves

and only walls remained.

It moved to our bedroom and stole my mother’s

hairpiece before turning to snatch the TV

dragging the black licorice cord along the side of the wall

it seized my sister’s illegal marijuana

and my brother’s brand new paint set

and my favorite AC/DC poster.

It swiveled through the hallway

down the stairs up the stairs

in the crawl-space behind the door

it went under the bed in the covers

it swept the kitchen clean

and came back

looking for water to turn

and turn and turn but there was none.

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Obama on Tumblr

Today President Obama did a live-stream Q&A on Tumblr with David Karp (founder of Tumblr) answering user’s questions focusing on student debt and touching on recent school shootings.

Or you could watch it streamed in a coffee shop while on Tumblr  #tumblrinception #community

I’ve always been particularly cynical when it comes to the Government and Congress, most of the time with good reason. But it does give me hope that the Obama administration is actively trying to reach out to young people through technology and the media, to open the door to positive conversation. Especially on topics that are tangibly relevant to every millennial at this point in their lives.

Student debt is a BIG deal for me and so many other students, and some don’t realize how big until after they’ve graduated. Something I appreciated President Obama talking about was balancing the desire to follow your dreams vs. practicality. It’s great if you want to do something you love, but be prepared to back it up with a concrete way to support yourself financially. Money isn’t the most important thing, but in reality, it is something that affects the way you live day-to-day.

Ultimately, you are going to do best at something you care deeply for. But you still have to grind it out. Your career isn’t always a straight line. Sometimes you have to take a job to pay the bills. And sometimes you take a big risk, like building something called Tumblr.

-President Obama

Turning away from college debt, President Obama answered a question about school shootings. I was disappointed with the way he chose to tie in gun control (which is an issue, just not the one I wanted him to talk about) instead of addressing the problem of mental illness in teens and young adults. An estimated 20% of adolescents (13-18 year olds), either currently or at some point during their life, have had a seriously debilitating mental disorder. That translates into 1 in every 5.

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I rarely see politicians talking about this issue, even though it is becoming more prevalent in our society. America does not have many well-funded programs for those struggling with mental illnesses. On a more personal note, I know multiple people who have been denied psychiatric/therapeutic help because their symptoms were not severe enough! Most people simply cannot afford private counseling but still need more help than a suicide hotline can give. This is not the way to help those who are suffering from things like depression, or who struggle with self-harm. Mental illness is not an just a pessimistic attitude or a phase, it is a serious medical condition that can be treated if/when needed. In order to bring the violence we see in schools down, we need to address both the root cause of the violence as well as the tools used to carry it out.

Overall, I was excited to see the Obama Administration reach out to the younger generation through social media. I think it is a great sign that the government is willing to adapt and use the resources that have been growing rapidly in the past decade in a way that reaches out to the people and makes them feel like they do have an impact and their voices are being heard. Whether this will actually make a tangible impact on anything is another issue, but this, at least, is a step in a positive direction.

Did you tune in to the President’s Q&A? What did you think about what he had to say? Let me know in the comments!

On Being Brave

Being brave is like being a tadpole. You’re  swimming along at the bottom of a pond and suddenly you realize you have legs. Do you stay in the water, where you know you’ll be safe, or bob to the surface and peek around before trying your new legs out? Nature decides for the tadpole, but in this metaphor YOU get to decide. Stay in safety or take the risk?

Growing up is hard. Doing the adult thing, making adult choices, taking responsibility for all your actions. Child-you is trying to convince Adult-you to keep things simple, why get out when you can just stay in? But you do it anyway, even if others don’t agree. Because that’s part of growing up. Realizing that not everyone will agree with the choices you make and might even be disappointed with them, but they are still your choices.  We just have to be brave enough to own them.  

The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.
-Coco Chanel

Growing up in a Christian family has its pros and cons. But one thing I never learned to do well growing up was ask questions. God has all the answers, so why should I bother creating conflict when He’s already got it all figured out? Wrong! Life isn’t like Sunday school where the answer is a Bible verse you memorize when you were two. People have questions and that’s okay. We shouldn’t let fear keep us from asking questions or from finding our own answers. Being a young twenty-something is the epitome of having nothing  but questions.  How do I file taxes, how do I fix my leaky faucet, how do I tell my parents that I’m definitely not a republican?

A year ago I would have been the tadpole that grew into a frog but was too afraid to get out of the water. I would have been content to stay beneath the ripples, conflict free. But I don’t want to be that tadpole anymore, I want to own my adult life and be MYSELF. I want to be brave enough to ask questions, and make adult decisions, knowing full well I’ll have to take responsibility for the consequences. And I think I can do that. Can you?

With a little courage, I think we can all be frogs together.